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DOES DIFFERENCE IN RELIGION HAS ROLE TO PLAY IN MARRIAGE?

Interesting subject of discussion.Does difference in religion has a role to play in Marriage?i.e Is inter -religious marriage has any role/interference in marriage institution?Coming up next!

THE INFLUENCE OF IN-LAWS IN MARRIAGE INSTITUTION IN NIGERIA TODAY.

Marriage is beautiful,highly enjoyable when it works well as expected.It can also turn unlucky to Aristotle of this world, enticed mixed feelings of sweet and bitter.The victims are either frustrated and psychologically affected or traumatized.The root cause of many problems today didn't originate from the couple themselves but many traceable to overbearing influence of the mother in laws on her son or indifferent attitudes of other husbands family members towards the wife.However,not that the wife herself is exonerated from this findings but each participants played vital role in allowing marriage to walk.I was thrown off balance when a lady was saying it among her friends that she never prayed to meet her mother in law alive in husbands house.In other words,praying for the demise of her mother in law before marriage or praying to have husband who has lost his mother years before they met!. She even said she will asked her intending husband if his mother alive or not before talkin...

SINGLE MOTHER AND CHALLENGES OF PARENTHOOD.

It was like a bad dream when this woman was wailing and shouting.The whole neighborhood were awake with outcry of this woman as She was beaten her daughter and cursing her persistently.All effort to persuade her to stop raining curses on her daughter proved abortive.This was a woman who left her first marriage because of irreconcilable differences between her and her husband.She left home with her fifteen years old (15) daughter and relocated to another town. She thought of work to do to take care of her and her daughter.Without delay,She decided to venture into food vending business.She was raised by her grandmother who happened to be a popular food vendor in the village.In the course of vending food around the environs,She met one mechanic who was willing to marry her.Tunde was a well popular man in that neighborhood because of his lavish spending and comical nature.He used to play with this woman's daughter jokingly as his little wife.He would give both the mother and daughter ...

WHY KEEPING COW WHEN WE CAN BUY MILK?

Milk is an opaque white fluid rich in fat and protein,secreted by female mammals for the nourishment of their young.Cow milk is fortified in Vitamin D which is highly beneficial to bone health.We are not dwelling on this scientifically but used figuratively to create a style that puts our modern society in spot light with respect to relationship and marriage institution.In the past,parents look forward to seen their children getting married and settle down in family way.Today,those aroma of marriage catches no fancy as before in modern settings. Quite unfortunate, many marriageable spinsters,ladies and divorcee are willing to live as baby mamas or separated.This development agitated my mind and I took no time to interview few ladies as regards this ugly trend.I was bewildered when confronted with the following questions from ladies.- Do I need an husband when I can have boyfriend and raise babies?Do I need any husband when I have a lucrative job that fetches reasonable income?Do I nee...

SORRY!THE DICE IS CAST,DANIEL IS GONE.

Jane was crying and wailing uncontrollably inside the house.She was sandwiched by a family member and her closest friend Shalom.As she was sobbing profusely and stretching her body,she looked at her friend intermittently with suggestion of passing message across to her friend.Shalom understood her message been her closest friend and confidant.They were so close right from their high school days and waxing stronger and stronger after completion of high school. Jane gained  admission to read Nursing at the University while Shalom got admission in the University to read education in one of the Universities.Each time they were on break,they bond together to share gist and discuss about future.Shalom has a friend Daniel who showed interest in Jane.He was handsome,tall and light in complexion.Daniel has showed much dexterity that endeared him to Jane also.He was very brilliant and hardworking.He used to assist Jane and Shalom in preparation for University  entrance exams.That gave ...

JOURNEY FOR GREENER PASTURE

The search of  man to live a descent life about contentment.When human nature overtakes a desire to live a descent and comfortable life,desperation set in. My good friend Wale,was desperate to travel abroad.He so much believe that traveling to United States of America is the best option for an hustling guy like him.Without wasting more time on his decision.He decided to travel to Lagos to meet Tunji,one of our friends that his brother his running a travel agency.Wale used his house documents he managed to build when things were working well f to stand as collateral in a financial bank to raise some funds.With the value/worth of his house,he had no problem in raising a reasonable amount that will cover his traveling expenses abroad..He had a good intention to travel abroad and work abroad so that the standard of living of the family will be improved."But there is always a price tag'.He had a small family of wife and two (2) kids.Hope was high with desperation to reach America ...