YES,YOU CAN HELP HIM OUT INSTEAD....

I was getting late to prepare for a three days conference coming up in Abuja.My intention was to travel by air on Friday so that I can settle down in time and prepare for the conference starting on Monday.At least with that I have enough time to jam and flex with friends in Abuja which I left some years back.Suddenly I got a call from Tunde ,my very colleague at work.I was hearing threatening loud voices of two people fighting.I heard my friend's baritone voice aloud when he said"come and pick your sister o before I kill her here.She had started her madness at home".Tunde was referring to his wife he married 6years ago.I wasn't surprised at all because they used to fight frequently.I was perplexed and quite uncoordinated immediately I heard come and pick your sister before I kill her here.Vic was my Junior in secondary school at Model secondary school.An active,unassuming and pretty lady She was during school days.A close friend to my younger sister and that makes her become my adopted sister.That was the main reason Tunde used to call me when they had issues like this so that at least I can call her to other.The worst thing is that each time I tried to delve down to unravel the course of their fight, Vic will give me trivial excuse for her actions.It makes me unwilling to visit their house when her husband call me that they have issues.

I was thinking that possibly Vic was misbehaving as a result of her present condition.She lost a baby born for Tunde just two years after their marriage.Since then nothing has come up as marital joy after She lost  her child.I believe it was inability of Tunde to impregnate her again is presumably the cause of her slightest vituperation.I had to rush to my car key to dash to their home to see them.I was astonished when I saw Vic holding and squeezing her husband's shirt.What an arrant nonsense!I snapped at her and commanded her to release Tunde for me.She felt reluctant but She eventually acceded to my request.I was relieved that at least She still listens to me.I asked the two of them to sit down so that we can discuss what was the matter.They listen to me and we settled down for discussion.Tunde stated his explanation by complaining to me that his wife doesn't listen to him at home again and sighted instances.When it was turn of Vic to talk,She said Bros Dee,referring to me,this your friend is not human being but a serpent,a wicked heart.I caution her not to use abusive words on her husband in my presence.She explained that Tunde drinks a lot and comes home lately.That She had warned her husband many times but not willing to change.Vic further said cannot trust Tunde that his escapades was responsible for his inability to put her in a family way.With patience and maturity,I was able to settle their issues before I left their home with a promise that such will not reoccur again.I lashed out at Vic for her impatience to understand  the nature of Tunde's work.Her husband is a workaholic and has a voluminous office work he attends to after working hours.I told her is not all times he comes lately that he went to club on drinking but certain stringent office exigencies may necessitate that.I also blame Tunde for lack of prompt communications on his movement to his wife.

After the end of conference,I decided to come back from Abuja by road to safe cost.I left Abuja in the afternoon with the believe to be back by  late evening time.As luck ran on me,the tire  of my car got punctured on the speed. I couldn't believe staying with the driver at night in the bushy location. I quickly consider the option I have,meaning I have to arrange an hotel in Ilesa which is a big city.The hotel was serene and comfortable to lodge.I didn't waste time in my room before I took shower and went to sleep.Not quite long I sleep when we heard a loud noise from the next room shouting please,somebody help!help!!help!!!.I put on my trouser quickly and dashed to the next door.Already two waiters were there before I reached the door.We knocked the door aloud and the lady opened it,I was shocked it was Vic,Tunde's wife,my own surrogate sister was the one shouting somebody help help.What brought her to hotel,She couldn't explain and neither do I have explanation.She too developed a cold feet and was shivering,she couldn't hold tears,sobbing profusely for her mess.I didn't look at her face as my concern was how to safe life of a young man gasping for breadth to survive.I carried the young man on shoulder since he was still breathing with the help of the two waiters.I rushed him inn into hotel service vehicle and rush to the hospital immediately.As luck we have it,there is a consultant on duty.They placed the young man on bed and stabilize him first.

Doctor requested for deposit payment of #30,000 which Vic quickly paid without delay.I was wondering what could have happened and if Vic could give me a convincing reason for what happened.Doctor invited me into his office with Vic and requested for our relationship with the young man. I introduce Vic as his wife and the  young lad as  my brother.We came home for a particular function and felt was unnecessary to stay at family house.The Doctor told us that the young man went to use local herbs to enhance his sexual prowess,he took an overdose and that resulted into complications.I look at Vic's eyes and She couldn't talk but speechless.So She came to do an overnight runs in nearby town to satisfy her sexual urge with another man!. My thought was where was Tunde and was he aware of her escapades?I thank the Doctor and left the consulting room.Vic followed me and was sobbing for the guilt of her escapades.She started to tell me how She found herself in the mess.She called me,Uncle Dee,this problem is not now but had started two years back.I asked how? She said there was a time Tunde was sick and was on sickbed for 3months in the hospital.That eventually after Tunde recovered from that sickness,he has not been sexually active as he was before.That most often,her husband will keep late night just to see that She was already asleep before He entered house in other to deny her sex.That this blame game has been occurring over and over and that's why She resulted into snappy any available opportunity she had to have her sexual satisfaction.She confessed  was happy when Tunde told her about the three(3) days conference.That Tunde decided not to travel with me when he couldn't afford going with flight this time around.

I listened to her painstakingly as She explained herself.After She narrated her story,I asked her 2 questions to answer me.Firstly,how will She feel or react if Tunde accompany me on my way coming from Abuja and found her in this hotel with sexual scandal?Secondly,where does She think She will be if para venture the young man died in the hotel?Vic knelt down in front of me and begging,Uncle Dee,I will never do it again,please save my marriage.I looked up but didn't have right available answer.I promised her not to inform Tunde and She should see me the next day in Ibadan.We entered the ward to see the young man recuperating.He wanted to open his mouth to thank me in appreciation but the Nurse signaled to him not to talk to anybody for now.I had a second look at him and saw an image of my junior in secondary school.I turned to Vic to inquire about the guy.He was Jide,her old secondary school boyfriend!How come they met after that long years I asked Vic?.She responded that Jide was based in London with his family but established some businesses here in Nigeria.That whenever Jide is around,he used to send gift to her through his sister.He has extended overtures to her many times which She denied because of her marriage.She just decided to give Jide a second look when her husband could not satisfy her sexually.

As early in the morning,I quickly arrange my exit from hotel and reassure Vic not to inform her husband what happened but should see me when Jide is discharge from hospital.

We got a vulcanizer in Ilesa who helped us to repair the tire as quick as possible in the morning.I got home in the morning and went into my room to sleep after the sleepless night I went through.My wife normally leave house early to take kids to school and from there to her shop.She comes back later in the evening time.So home was boring to me alone.I was about to on my Television set when I heard a knock at the door.Hello Vic,I greeted her and how is your boyfriend doing?I wanted to show my annoyance and disapproval for her shameless act.She couldn't talk,instead knelt down again.I told her to rise up and sit down on the chair.I started to counsel her that what She had done in the previous day was not the solution to the predicament of her husband.I went further to explain to her that fighting her husband should not be a weapon to force him to find solution to his problem after all not that he cannot have sex but was premature ejaculation.I asked her steps She has taken to find solution to his problem?She replied me"Uncle Dee,am I the one to help him find solution?Dont you think he will take me for a prostitutes if I'm going out on his behalf"?.I asked her to give me just a minute and will be right back.I came out with three (3) different bottles of medicine my wife bought for me for sexual agility.I continued,"You can help him out instead of mess you put yourself"".She asked, you said what sir?I repeated myself,"Yes,you can help him out instead...".I narrated my own story to her and how my wife went out to virologist and experts that procured medicine that healed me permanently.I showed her the 3 containers in my hand for her to see.She collected the 3 bottles and was speechless for a while.I continued to lecture her that many had ruined their homes because they couldn't assist their husbands on sex matters.I told her our secret is secret and She should go and do the needful. She thanked me and started praying for me.She requested if She can go with the 3 empty bottles which I agreed.

After weeks,I noticed at work that Tunde is much happy at work and is more lively than before.He was more effective at work.I noticed that issue of fight is no longer there again.I was wondering if Vic had towed my line of advice.I decided to visit their home and see things myself.I reached their home and I was happy,Tunde and Vic were watching home video and cuddling each other .I said Oh,you guys are really enjoying yourself,sorry for intruding into honey pie's privacy.They both busted into laughter and welcomed me wholeheartedly. Tunde,excused himself to reach convenience.Quickly,Vic moved closer to me,my dear Uncle for live.I cant quantify help you did for me.Have reach out and gotten those medicine and since then,Tunde as been active and no excuse or power failure any longer.My eyes filled with tears of joy by restoring back joy into their family.